Category: Health

Does Man-Opause Exist

Do men suffer from ‘Man-Opause’ just like women? Why yes. In men it is called “Andropause”

If you are experiencing low moods, reduced sexual drive, poor concentration and motivation, aching bones, fatigue. Erectile dysfunction to name a few, these are similar symptoms that women go through for female menopause. So men of a certain age can experience similar symptoms in their mid-life.

We all have testosterone, which gives us that libido and energy.  So men your testosterone levels will decline when you reach your mid-40s. This is not to say that all men with go through this. It all depends as well on your health, how fit you are.  If you are obese your testosterone levels will drop by 30 per cent or more. Another illness could be diabetes.

The best form of treatment is to have a healthy lifestyle, regular exercise, eat healthy, get enough sleep and reduce your stress.

It’s normal to experience a decline in your testosterone levels as you get older. For many men symptoms are manageable.  If symptoms are worrying you, I suggest you speak to your doctor who can help to manage or treat your symptoms. It’s all part of the life cycle of growing older.

If you need to release some stress, why not visit me for a relaxing massage, or social date where we can go for a walk.
Maria
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Sensual Massage

Are you feeling stressed, body muscles aches, well let me make you feel relaxed, unwind, stress free with a sensual massage or “eroctic” massage with my soft touch.

The history of sensual massage can be found over more than a thousand years and was widespread in China and India.
A sensual massage is designed to be sexually stimulating and is to promote relaxation and increase arousal, leading to increased sexual pleasure.

My soft hands will glide over your body and caress you with massage oil. At the end of the massage if you would like I can give you a “happy ending”.

A sensual or eroctic massage can boost your health and wellbeing.  By having a massage regularly it can:

  • strengthen your immune system by raising your antibodies to ward against germs and viruses
  • lower the risk of heart attack
  • Sleeping improvement
  • eliminate headaches, back aches to name a few by raising your endorphins in your body which are a natural painkiller
  • lower the risk of prostate cancer
  • stronger, longer erections
  • increase sexual stamina

Of course having a massage is stress relief, but having a massage with eroctica the benefits go much further. Massage strokes alone breaks down muscle knots and eliminate the stress hormone cortisol giving you relief. The euphoria of a happy ending releases the feel good chemical Oxycontin, which maximises the pleasure and stimulates a positive mind-set for you. An erotic massage really is the best relief.

Some people enjoy massage beyond the numerous health benefits because it produces feelings of caring, comfort and connection without the sex.

You can always check with your Doctor if it is  medically safe for you. If you have never tried this type of  massage before, why not make a booking with me for a 30 minute sensual massage and let me make you feel relaxed.

Maria
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Benefits of a Hug

The benefits of a hug are more than just a friendly greeting, people hug to express their feelings from affection and joy and sadness.
We can also call hugs the “love hormone” oxytocin but it also heals sickness, loneliness, depression, anxiety and stress.

The feeling of touch and a deep hug has these benefits:

  • A nurturing touch of a hug builds trust and a sense of safety;
  • Boost oxytocin levels to heal feelings of loneliness, isolation and anger.
  • Having a long hug increases oxytocin levels which gives you a feeling of happiness.  It also can lead to intimacy between one another;
  • A hug can strengthen the immune system  keeping us healthy. Plus it relaxes our muscles and can soothe our aches and pains.

So if you feel the need for a hug, I would be happy to hug you back as I do like a hug myself. Hugs are all part of my dates.

Maria
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Sexual Pleasures

Are you having pleasurable and great sex? Sex that works for you and is great and makes you feel satisfied, gives you pleasure and makes you feel confident in the bedroom.

Great sex is about having a sensual experience, something I provide in my sessions. A lot of people believe to have great sex is all about their performance to get it right. So when we are in the bedroom it is not always about the sexual performance but pleasure you give one another. No one has sex perfectly but is something we enjoy and is fun. Pleasure is about communicating with your sexual partners while having the sexual experience, being together, relaxing, trusting the person you are with, relating to each other and experiencing sex as something other than penetration and orgasm.  Communicating is important so we learn what our partners like and don’t like so we can respect one another.

Some men feel inadequate because they cannot perform and there are many reasons for this, anxiety, stress, nervousness seeing a companion, but we can enjoy the sensual touch of one another and feel and learn the curves of each other’s bodies. A relaxing massage is always a good way to relieve the tension. This will help to have great sex. If you are at the age your both cannot perform any longer you still can have fun with intimacy with kisses, cuddles and just feeling each other’s bodies.

Of course, having sex and an orgasm will relieve the stress and release endorphins (the feel-good chemicals) which will help and reduce anxiety, better sleep  and boost our blood circulation for a healthier wellbeing.

I don’t judge anyone on their performance. I just want us both to have a sensual experience which brings both pleasure, an enjoyable time and fun along the way.

I am available for sessions for a pleasurable and sensual session. 

Maria
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Life in Covid Lockdown Sydney 2021

Here we are again in Covid Lockdown in Sydney.  This is my third lockdown. As you are aware it is a difficult time for everyone being far more strict in our movements.

I have been keeping busy by planting flowers which have now began to bloom, cooking, reading and binge watching the Crown.
 

I also go for my daily walks along the coastal tracks.  You are totally alone and in isolation as you take in the beauty of the coastline. If you live near the beach it helps clear the mind.

  • Reduces stresses by making you feel at ease;
  • Boosts your creativity by clearing your head to allow you to clearly focus;
  • Help in reduce feelings of depression; and
  • Change your perspective on life.

I wrote a blog on this. See link Health Benefits of Going to the Beach

If you cannot be near the seaside, getting out each day for physical exercise in the park is also just as good for your wellbeing.

I also reminisce the day I will be able to travel again to places like Africa, tropical islands ie Bora Bora. Most importantly the smaller things in life just to be able to see family and friends.

I would like to thank my lovely clients who have been in contact with me to check on my wellbeing and given me support. I look forward to the day I will be able to see you and share a dinner or lunch date with you. If you would like to see more of me in new lingerie would be happy to receive a Westfield Gift Voucher.

None of us like being in lockdown but please do the right thing and stay at home so we can come out sooner than later. All I can say is be safe and keep social distancing, plus wear a mask.  Most importantly please get vaccinated so we can start to live a normal life again.  I am fully vaccinated now.

Maria
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Food to Arouse your Sexual Desire

Our sexual desire can be increased by eating food that are “aphrodisiac” which is defined as a “drug or food that arouses sexual desire”.  It stimulates one or more of our five senses: sight, smell, sound, taste and touch accompanied by some wine, chocolate, candlelight and music. 

So aphrodisiacs can boost our sexual drive.  It can help to increase our libidos in certain ways by increasing blood flow to sex organs, while others increase the body to produce higher levels of hormones associated with sex drive. Weather this is all true or not, it is important to eat healthy and exercise to maintain your sex drive.

Some of the foods are: chocolate, strawberries, watermelon, red wine, oysters, almonds.

So why not try some strawberries and wine in my company and let the feel-good hormone dopamine give boost to your libido.

If you would like to arouse your sexual desire, lets arrange a date. See my Services and Contact for bookings.

Maria
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Living in a World Affected by Covid-19

Living in a world affected by Covid-19 has not been easy. So many of us have lost our jobs as well as my fellow sex workers.  

My civvie job and my sex work are on hold now and like many of us in the industry I have no income coming in with bills and a loan to pay. These have been difficult times.
For all of us this is unchartered waters in unprecedent times. 

I never imagined living through a pandemic.  To see our supermarket shelves empty with the basic essentials to survive. People going crazy over toilet paper.  That will go down in history. We all need to support one another by showing some kindness.  We need resilience, respect and courage.

Sydney CBD deserted

I recently had a death in the family during these difficult times. Attending the funeral was a different experience.  Everyone practiced physical distancing. No-one touched each other, no hugs or consoling one another.  It was heart-breaking not being able to share the grief. The funeral home provided hand sanitiser to everyone as we left (which sadly is almost a metaphor for the service sanitised).  This is the new norm.

I usually go to the beach for walks to clear my mind but have been staying away due to so many people not social distancing. I will continue to do so when I can when I know I will be on my own to do the right thing with social distancing.  Other times I am self-isolating. 
I’m keeping active by walking in the park or riding a bush bike each day.

I have also been dealing with harassment because that person has taken it upon themselves to jump to conclusions without any proof of evidence to back up their assumptions about me on a matter. It’s been a stressful time for me.

If you would like to help me make it through this period I would truly appreciate any financial support that you may care to make. Would love to hear from you if you are able to help me out. 

If you would like to chat at any time to keep in touch with one another and provide the companionship that you may need, happy to chat for a small donation.

To all my wonderful clients thank you so much for all your support. I hope to see you soon when we come out the other side of Covid-19. Especially looking forward to a dinner or lunch date to enjoy some good conversation, meal and fun. See my services

Remember #socialdistancing so we can continue living in a world affected by Covid-19, beat this and be safe. Hopefully a vaccine will be found soon.

Maria
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Health Benefits of Going to the Beach

I enjoy spending time outdoors whether at the beach or in the country which is good for you on both a mental and physical level. In the evenings I will go for a stroll along the beach to clear my head and soak up that sea air. But did you know that the health benefits of going to the beach and spending time at the beach is now referred to as “blue space” because of the peace and calmness you experience.

Soaking up the vibes at the beach

Blue space:

  • Reduces stresses by making you feel at ease;
  • Boosts your creativity by clearing your head to allow you to clearly focus;
  • Help in reduce feelings of depression; and
  • Change your perspective on life.
Sitting at the beach soaking up the atmosphere

So next time you are at the beach taking a dip in the water or just watching the waves, enjoy that feeling of relaxation and enjoy the health benefits of going to the beach.

If you need some relaxation and would like a fun day at the beach, why not see my services and book a date and I would be happy to take you and we can share the effects of the beach together.

Maria
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Women Orgasm in their Sleep

 

We all enjoy an orgasm which is a feeling of intense sexual pleasure that happens during sexual activity which is called “climaxing”. Both men and women have orgasms. The period after orgasm is attributed to the release of neurohormones, oxytocin and prolactin as well endorphins. It gives us that relaxed happy feeling.

A lot of men have sleep orgasms known as “wet dreams” during adolescence when their bodies are producing more testosterone and learn to control this as they get older.

But did you know that women can also have an orgasm in their sleep.

“I’m having a sexy dream which feels real and a rush of pleasure comes throughout my body. I just had an orgasm”. For women it is harder to realise they had an orgasm in their sleep as there is no physical evidence like with males. Some say this could be that you need some IRL stimulation or there is someone in your life you would like to be close with which can cause you to dream and orgasm.

I do know and quite certain I have experienced these orgasms in my sleep over the years.

For more details on women orgasm in their sleep, please click on the link.

https://splinternews.com/yes-women-orgasm-in-their-sleep-science-explains-why-1793848564#js_discussion-region

I would be happy to share an orgasm with you.

Maria xx

The Health Benefits of Sex Lead to a Healthy Life

We have all heard that laughter is the best medicine but having sex is more fun and the health benefits of sex lead to a healthy life.

So as we slip under those sheets for some intimacy it benefits us by:

  • lowering blood pressure
  • burning calories
  • strengthening muscles and bones
  • reducing risk of heart disease, stroke and hypertension
  • increasing libido
  • the more sex in a week makes your immune system stronger preventing illnesses, such as common cold
  • reduces pain such as headache. So when your partner says “not to night dear, I have a headache” sex can remedy this
  • protects men from prostate cancer
  • reduces stress and anxiety
  • better sleep
  • intimacy can bring you closer to your partner

Of course, at all times if you are having sex with multiple partners or do not want an unplanned pregnancy, please use protection ie condoms and birth control. As well as to prevent the risk of STIs.

I would be happy to see you for a booking, see my services I can help with those health benefits of sex. 

Maria
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