Are you having pleasurable and great sex? Sex that works for you and is great and makes you feel satisfied, gives you pleasure and makes you feel confident in the bedroom.
Great sex is about having a sensual experience, something I provide in my sessions. A lot of people believe to have great sex is all about their performance to get it right. So when we are in the bedroom it is not always about the sexual performance but pleasure you give one another. No one has sex perfectly but is something we enjoy and is fun. Pleasure is about communicating with your sexual partners while having the sexual experience, being together, relaxing, trusting the person you are with, relating to each other and experiencing sex as something other than penetration and orgasm. Communicating is important so we learn what our partners like and don’t like so we can respect one another.
Some men feel inadequate because they cannot perform and there are many reasons for this, anxiety, stress, nervousness seeing a companion, but we can enjoy the sensual touch of one another and feel and learn the curves of each other’s bodies. A relaxing massage is always a good way to relieve the tension. This will help to have great sex. If you are at the age your both cannot perform any longer you still can have fun with intimacy with kisses, cuddles and just feeling each other’s bodies.
Of course, having sex and an orgasm will relieve the stress and release endorphins (the feel-good chemicals) which will help and reduce anxiety, better sleep and boost our blood circulation for a healthier wellbeing.
I don’t judge anyone on their performance. I just want us both to have a sensual experience which brings both pleasure, an enjoyable time and fun along the way.
I am available for sessions for a pleasurable and sensual session.
If you cannot be near the seaside, getting out each day for physical exercise in the park is also just as good for your wellbeing.
I also reminisce the day I will be able to travel again to places like Africa, tropical islands ie Bora Bora. Most importantly the smaller things in life just to be able to see family and friends.
I would like to thank my lovely clients who have been in contact with me to check on my wellbeing and given me support. I look forward to the day I will be able to see you and share a dinner or lunch date with you. If you would like to see more of me in new lingerie would be happy to receive a Westfield Gift Voucher.
None of us like being in lockdown but please do the right thing and stay at home so we can come out sooner than later. All I can say is be safe and keep social distancing, plus wear a mask. Most importantly please get vaccinated so we can start to live a normal life again. I am fully vaccinated now.
Our sexual desire can be increased by eating food that are “aphrodisiac” which is defined as a “drug or food that arouses sexual desire”. It stimulates one or more of our five senses: sight, smell, sound, taste and touch accompanied by some wine, chocolate, candlelight and music.
So aphrodisiacs can boost our sexual drive. It can help to increase our libidos in certain ways by increasing blood flow to sex organs, while others increase the body to produce higher levels of hormones associated with sex drive. Weather this is all true or not, it is important to eat healthy and exercise to maintain your sex drive.
Some of the foods are: chocolate, strawberries, watermelon, red wine, oysters, almonds.
So why not try some strawberries and wine in my company and let the feel-good hormone dopamine give boost to your libido.
If you would like to arouse your sexual desire, lets arrange a date. See my Services and Contact for bookings.
Living in a world affected by Covid-19 has not been easy. So many of us have lost our jobs as well as my fellow sex workers.
My civvie job and my sex work are on hold now and like many of us in the industry I have no income coming in with bills and a loan to pay. These have been difficult times. For all of us this is unchartered waters in unprecedent times.
I never imagined living through a pandemic. To see our supermarket shelves empty with the basic essentials to survive. People going crazy over toilet paper. That will go down in history. We all need to support one another by showing some kindness. We need resilience, respect and courage.
I recently had a death in the family during these difficult times. Attending the funeral was a different experience. Everyone practiced physical distancing. No-one touched each other, no hugs or consoling one another. It was heart-breaking not being able to share the grief. The funeral home provided hand sanitiser to everyone as we left (which sadly is almost a metaphor for the service sanitised). This is the new norm.
I usually go to the beach for walks to clear my mind but have been staying away due to so many people not social distancing. I will continue to do so when I can when I know I will be on my own to do the right thing with social distancing. Other times I am self-isolating. I’m keeping active by walking in the park or riding a bush bike each day.
I have also been dealing with harassment because that person has taken it upon themselves to jump to conclusions without any proof of evidence to back up their assumptions about me on a matter. It’s been a stressful time for me.
If you would like to help me make it through this period I would truly appreciate any financial support that you may care to make. Would love to hear from you if you are able to help me out.
If you would like to chat at any time to keep in touch with one another and provide the companionship that you may need, happy to chat for a small donation.
To all my wonderful clients thank you so much for all your support. I hope to see you soon when we come out the other side of Covid-19. Especially looking forward to a dinner or lunch date to enjoy some good conversation, meal and fun. See my services
Remember #socialdistancing so we can continue living in a world affected by Covid-19, beat this and be safe. Hopefully a vaccine will be found soon.
The benefits of a hug are more than just a friendly greeting, people hug to express their feelings from affection and joy and sadness. We can also call hugs the “love hormone” oxytocin but it also heals sickness, loneliness, depression, anxiety and stress.
The feeling of touch and a deep hug has these benefits:
A nurturing touch of a hug builds trust and a sense of safety;
Boost oxytocin levels to heal feelings of loneliness, isolation and anger.
Having a long hug increases oxytocin levels which gives you a feeling of happiness. It also can lead to intimacy between one another;
A hug can strengthen the immune system keeping us healthy. Plus it relaxes our muscles and can soothe our aches and pains.
So if you feel the need for a hug, I would be happy to hug you back as I do like a hug myself. Hugs are all part of my dates.
I enjoy spending time outdoors whether at the beach or in the country which is good for you on both a mental and physical level. In the evenings I will go for a stroll along the beach to clear my head and soak up that sea air. But did you know that the health benefits of going to the beach and spending time at the beach is now referred to as “blue space” because of the peace and calmness you experience.
Reduces stresses by making you feel at ease;
Boosts your creativity by clearing your head to allow you to clearly focus;
Help in reduce feelings of depression; and
Change your perspective on life.
So next time you are at the beach taking a dip in the water or just watching the waves, enjoy that feeling of relaxation and enjoy the health benefits of going to the beach.
If you need some relaxation and would like a fun day at the beach, why not see my services and book a date and I would be happy to take you and we can share the effects of the beach together.
We all enjoy an orgasm which is a feeling of intense sexual pleasure that happens during sexual activity which is called “climaxing”. Both men and women have orgasms. The period after orgasm is attributed to the release of neurohormones, oxytocin and prolactin as well endorphins. It gives us that relaxed happy feeling.
A lot of men have sleep orgasms known as “wet dreams” during adolescence when their bodies are producing more testosterone and learn to control this as they get older.
But did you know that women can also have an orgasm in their sleep.
“I’m having a sexy dream which feels real and a rush of pleasure comes throughout my body. I just had an orgasm”. For women it is harder to realise they had an orgasm in their sleep as there is no physical evidence like with males. Some say this could be that you need some IRL stimulation or there is someone in your life you would like to be close with which can cause you to dream and orgasm.
I do know and quite certain I have experienced these orgasms in my sleep over the years.
For more details on women orgasm in their sleep, please click on the link.
Now that winter is upon us, I enjoy getting out and going for a bike ride. If you don’t own a bike you can hire one. It’s nice to be outside enjoying the winter sun, fresh air, having fun and so cycling helps keep fit and better sex in the bedroom.
Research has found regular high intensity cycling for women enjoy a better sexual function compared to women who take it easy and don’t ride at all. But cycling is beneficial for both sexes. Most of us know that sex is a good thing and is overall good for your health. But riding a bike also builds up muscles which helps us to enjoy sex for longer. It also decreases stress levels, reduce anxiety and depression, strengthen bones, improved joint mobility and increased cardiovascular fitness. So what does that this all mean – it all helps with easier sexual arousal and you are more likely to be in the mood to enjoy sex more often.
So get out and enjoy yourself and remember cycling helps keep fit or come join me for a bike ride and lets have some fun. See my services and rates for a social booking.