The benefits of a hug are more than just a friendly greeting, people hug to express their feelings from affection and joy and sadness. We can also call hugs the “love hormone” oxytocin but it also heals sickness, loneliness, depression, anxiety and stress.
The feeling of touch and a deep hug has these benefits:
A nurturing touch of a hug builds trust and a sense of safety;
Boost oxytocin levels to heal feelings of loneliness, isolation and anger.
Having a long hug increases oxytocin levels which gives you a feeling of happiness. It also can lead to intimacy between one another;
A hug can strengthen the immune system keeping us healthy. Plus it relaxes our muscles and can soothe our aches and pains.
So if you feel the need for a hug, I would be happy to hug you back as I do like a hug myself. Hugs are all part of my dates.
It has been a difficult year for some coming out of Covid into an unknown economy, but was also filled with wonderful clients and new adventures.I would like to thank all the clients I have seen over the year, great company, good conversations and the sensual pleasures.
Thank you to all of you. I look forward to seeing you in 2023.
Lets share some kindness, happiness in our lives and stay safe.
Are you having pleasurable and great sex? Sex that works for you and is great and makes you feel satisfied, gives you pleasure and makes you feel confident in the bedroom.
Great sex is about having a sensual experience, something I provide in my sessions. A lot of people believe to have great sex is all about their performance to get it right. So when we are in the bedroom it is not always about the sexual performance but pleasure you give one another. No one has sex perfectly but is something we enjoy and is fun. Pleasure is about communicating with your sexual partners while having the sexual experience, being together, relaxing, trusting the person you are with, relating to each other and experiencing sex as something other than penetration and orgasm. Communicating is important so we learn what our partners like and don’t like so we can respect one another.
Some men feel inadequate because they cannot perform and there are many reasons for this, anxiety, stress, nervousness seeing a companion, but we can enjoy the sensual touch of one another and feel and learn the curves of each other’s bodies. A relaxing massage is always a good way to relieve the tension. This will help to have great sex. If you are at the age your both cannot perform any longer you still can have fun with intimacy with kisses, cuddles and just feeling each other’s bodies.
Of course, having sex and an orgasm will relieve the stress and release endorphins (the feel-good chemicals) which will help and reduce anxiety, better sleep and boost our blood circulation for a healthier wellbeing.
I don’t judge anyone on their performance. I just want us both to have a sensual experience which brings both pleasure, an enjoyable time and fun along the way.
I am available for sessions for a pleasurable and sensual session.
Are you visiting Sydney or missing a companion to share a lunch or dinner, look no further. It would be my pleasure to accompany you and keep you company. A lunch or dinner date is the perfect way to start a booking. If you are feeling nervous, this is a great way you can start to unwind and feel relaxed.
As we sit across the table on a dinner date you will look into my mesmerising green eyes as we make a connection. Its a perfect way to get to know each other enjoying the evening in each other’s company, good conversation and a nice meal which will lead to what is next to come.
It’s nice to dress up on occasions for dinner but I also love to be relaxed and casual for a date. I love seafood restaurants. We can go to a restaurant of your choosing, maybe one at the hotel or I can arrange a deluxe dinner package.
Alternatively, we could have a casual meal at my incall. I love something simple on these dates, prawns, fresh bread and avocado and for dessert some strawberries. It sets the stage for the rest of the time afterwards when we head to the bedroom. What happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors.
Over the years I have seen how there has been little or no etiquette in manners of clients contacting a sex worker.
When making a booking, it can be overwhelming for the first time, but overall please be polite and respectable and I will be the same to you. Please read the ad or website first before contacting me especially to see if I am the right person for you to see. Do some research, if I’m not the person for you there will be someone else.
When contacting me for the first time follow how to contact me. Don’t “Hi Babe, are u available” and “are you interested”. Manners is important to me. Provide the information requested to make a booking and let the provider know a little about yourself . The information asked by you is for our safety. Inquire what you would like in a booking and whether the provider, provides what you are looking for. Please don’t haggle with rates as this is one way not to be accepted for a booking and if a deposit is requested this is non-negotiable. When you come to a booking please make sure your clean hygiene and no the boundaries if a “no” is said it means “no”. I am here to make you feel at ease and relaxed and take away the pressures of your busy life and we can have an enjoyable time.
I do prefer a lunch or dinner date as we can get to know one another before we close the bedroom door for some intimacy. I am known for my sensual touch as I run my hands over your body.
Our sexual desire can be increased by eating food that are “aphrodisiac” which is defined as a “drug or food that arouses sexual desire”. It stimulates one or more of our five senses: sight, smell, sound, taste and touch accompanied by some wine, chocolate, candlelight and music.
So aphrodisiacs can boost our sexual drive. It can help to increase our libidos in certain ways by increasing blood flow to sex organs, while others increase the body to produce higher levels of hormones associated with sex drive. Weather this is all true or not, it is important to eat healthy and exercise to maintain your sex drive.
Some of the foods are: chocolate, strawberries, watermelon, red wine, oysters, almonds.
So why not try some strawberries and wine in my company and let the feel-good hormone dopamine give boost to your libido.
If you would like to arouse your sexual desire, lets arrange a date. See my Services and Contact for bookings.
Ever wondered what a longer date might entail? It’s all about privacy and location where you feel the most comfortable.
If you like your privacy and prefer not to have a date in a hotel, I have an incall on the Northern Beaches. Or alternatively, I can arrange for an incall depending on your location for longer dates.
I would greet you at the door with my friendly smile and a hug. We would begin the date by relaxing on the couch with some good conversation as we get to know each other. Human connection is important which is what we all desire. I would take away those nerves with my sensual touch and perhaps sip on a glass of wine or coffee with cheese and biscuits.
As things progress, we can move into the bedroom if this is this is what you desire and enjoy the intimacy of each other. Perhaps begin with a relaxing massage before things progress in an unrushed experience of passion. I look forward to meeting you and we can take things at whatever pace you prefer.
A new year has arrived and I wish everyone a Happy New Year 2021. For me the closure of 2020 was the end of a most difficult year for me personally and challenges which I never thought I would have to overcome.
I hope you all had a very happy Christmas and New Year. I would like to say a big thank you to all my clients, regular and new clients who I have had the privilege to meet and share some fun with over the year whether it was by phone chats, messages or being able to see you in a session.
Being in lockdown I found difficult and to have a second lockdown over Christmas and New Year was hard not being able to be around family and friends. Plus the continued harassment which I thought had stopped only to start over Christmas and New Year. This person is paranoid. Christmas is a time for forgiveness and letting go and understanding if there is no reason for all this.
I also dealt with a number of family and friends’ deaths over the year and more so a family death 3 days before Christmas. Having to deal with this during lockdown was not easy. Any way 2020 is certainly a year I would like to put behind me. As a saying goes this year “20 20 won” .
2020 taught me to be a better and stronger person and start a new beginning with 2021 full of happiness, kindness, harmony, health and most importantly the vaccine for Covid-19 works so that we can move on with our lives in a safe environment. This year will be about moving forward and not taking any nonsense from anyone this year and to see where it leads us on our journey.
Living in a world affected by Covid-19 has not been easy. So many of us have lost our jobs as well as my fellow sex workers.
My civvie job and my sex work are on hold now and like many of us in the industry I have no income coming in with bills and a loan to pay. These have been difficult times. For all of us this is unchartered waters in unprecedent times.
I never imagined living through a pandemic. To see our supermarket shelves empty with the basic essentials to survive. People going crazy over toilet paper. That will go down in history. We all need to support one another by showing some kindness. We need resilience, respect and courage.
I recently had a death in the family during these difficult times. Attending the funeral was a different experience. Everyone practiced physical distancing. No-one touched each other, no hugs or consoling one another. It was heart-breaking not being able to share the grief. The funeral home provided hand sanitiser to everyone as we left (which sadly is almost a metaphor for the service sanitised). This is the new norm.
I usually go to the beach for walks to clear my mind but have been staying away due to so many people not social distancing. I will continue to do so when I can when I know I will be on my own to do the right thing with social distancing. Other times I am self-isolating. I’m keeping active by walking in the park or riding a bush bike each day.
I have also been dealing with harassment because that person has taken it upon themselves to jump to conclusions without any proof of evidence to back up their assumptions about me on a matter. It’s been a stressful time for me.
If you would like to help me make it through this period I would truly appreciate any financial support that you may care to make. Would love to hear from you if you are able to help me out.
If you would like to chat at any time to keep in touch with one another and provide the companionship that you may need, happy to chat for a small donation.
To all my wonderful clients thank you so much for all your support. I hope to see you soon when we come out the other side of Covid-19. Especially looking forward to a dinner or lunch date to enjoy some good conversation, meal and fun. See my services
Remember #socialdistancing so we can continue living in a world affected by Covid-19, beat this and be safe. Hopefully a vaccine will be found soon.
I enjoy spending time outdoors whether at the beach or in the country which is good for you on both a mental and physical level. In the evenings I will go for a stroll along the beach to clear my head and soak up that sea air. But did you know that the health benefits of going to the beach and spending time at the beach is now referred to as “blue space” because of the peace and calmness you experience.
Reduces stresses by making you feel at ease;
Boosts your creativity by clearing your head to allow you to clearly focus;
Help in reduce feelings of depression; and
Change your perspective on life.
So next time you are at the beach taking a dip in the water or just watching the waves, enjoy that feeling of relaxation and enjoy the health benefits of going to the beach.
If you need some relaxation and would like a fun day at the beach, why not see my services and book a date and I would be happy to take you and we can share the effects of the beach together.