Sexual Pleasures

Are you having pleasurable and great sex? Sex that works for you and is great and makes you feel satisfied, gives you pleasure and makes you feel confident in the bedroom.

Great sex is about having a sensual experience, something I provide in my sessions. A lot of people believe to have great sex is all about their performance to get it right. So when we are in the bedroom it is not always about the sexual performance but pleasure you give one another. No one has sex perfectly but is something we enjoy and is fun. Pleasure is about communicating with your sexual partners while having the sexual experience, being together, relaxing, trusting the person you are with, relating to each other and experiencing sex as something other than penetration and orgasm.  Communicating is important so we learn what our partners like and don’t like so we can respect one another.

Some men feel inadequate because they cannot perform and there are many reasons for this, anxiety, stress, nervousness seeing a companion, but we can enjoy the sensual touch of one another and feel and learn the curves of each other’s bodies. A relaxing massage is always a good way to relieve the tension. This will help to have great sex. If you are at the age your both cannot perform any longer you still can have fun with intimacy with kisses, cuddles and just feeling each other’s bodies.

Of course, having sex and an orgasm will relieve the stress and release endorphins (the feel-good chemicals) which will help and reduce anxiety, better sleep  and boost our blood circulation for a healthier wellbeing.

I don’t judge anyone on their performance. I just want us both to have a sensual experience which brings both pleasure, an enjoyable time and fun along the way.

I am available for sessions for a pleasurable and sensual session. 

Maria
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Etiquette in contacting a companion

Over the years I have seen how there has been little or no etiquette in manners of clients contacting a sex worker.

When making a booking, it can be overwhelming for the first time, but overall please be polite and respectable and I will be the same to you.
Please read the ad or website first before contacting me especially to see if I am the right person for you to see. Do some research, if I’m not the person for you there will be someone else.

When contacting me for the first time follow how to contact me. Don’t “Hi Babe, are u available” and “are you interested”. Manners is important to me. Provide the information requested to make a booking and let the provider know a little about yourself . The information asked by you is for our safety.
Inquire what you would like in a booking and whether the provider, provides what you are looking for.
Please don’t haggle with rates as this is one way not to be accepted for a booking and if a deposit is requested this is non-negotiable.
When you come to a booking please make sure your clean hygiene and no the boundaries if a “no” is said it means “no”.
I am here to make you feel at ease and relaxed and take away the pressures of your busy life and we can have an enjoyable time.

I do prefer a lunch or dinner date as we can get to know one another before we close the bedroom door for some intimacy. I am known for my sensual touch as I run my hands over your body.

Food to Arouse your Sexual Desire

Our sexual desire can be increased by eating food that are “aphrodisiac” which is defined as a “drug or food that arouses sexual desire”.  It stimulates one or more of our five senses: sight, smell, sound, taste and touch accompanied by some wine, chocolate, candlelight and music. 

So aphrodisiacs can boost our sexual drive.  It can help to increase our libidos in certain ways by increasing blood flow to sex organs, while others increase the body to produce higher levels of hormones associated with sex drive. Weather this is all true or not, it is important to eat healthy and exercise to maintain your sex drive.

Some of the foods are: chocolate, strawberries, watermelon, red wine, oysters, almonds.

So why not try some strawberries and wine in my company and let the feel-good hormone dopamine give boost to your libido.

If you would like to arouse your sexual desire, lets arrange a date. See my Services and Contact for bookings.

Maria
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Benefits of a Hug

The benefits of a hug are more than just a friendly greeting, people hug to express their feelings from affection and joy and sadness.
We can also call hugs the “love hormone” oxytocin but it also heals sickness, loneliness, depression, anxiety and stress.

The feeling of touch and a deep hug has these benefits:

  • A nurturing touch of a hug builds trust and a sense of safety;
  • Boost oxytocin levels to heal feelings of loneliness, isolation and anger.
  • Having a long hug increases oxytocin levels which gives you a feeling of happiness.  It also can lead to intimacy between one another;
  • A hug can strengthen the immune system  keeping us healthy. Plus it relaxes our muscles and can soothe our aches and pains.

So if you feel the need for a hug, I would be happy to hug you back as I do like a hug myself. Hugs are all part of my dates.

Maria
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Erotic Sexual Pottery from Lima, Peru

My friends recently came back from a trip to Lima, Peru where they visited the Larco Museum which houses ancient artifacts. But in a gallery segregated from the main gallery are 1500 year old year old erotic sexual pottery, pre-Columbian Moche pottery which depicts the Adean people’s explicit sexuality.

Spooning Erotic Pottery

They say it presents the physical act of sex as an affront to the Catholic faith. But the art also suited the Spanish need to define indigenous people as “carnal”, “lustful” and pagan” tribes which would declare war so that the Spanish could expand their territory. The pottery is not of traditional sex but men and women having anal sex, women performing oral sex on men and men masturbating.

Oral Erotic Sexual Pottery

Anal intercourse was accepted and practiced as a form of birth control.

Here are some pictures. Enjoy

Anal

Maria
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