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Sex Toys for Men

Sexual health wellbeing for men is being more recognised in society. With social media, wellness influencers and a more people being open about their masculinity and sexuality have contributed to discussions about male sexual health and pleasure. So sex toys are not just out there for women but there are a range and variety of sex toys designed explicitly for men.

I have read some surveys and articles and they say that men masturbate an average of 155 times per year which is almost three times per week.

So according to science, masturbation, prostate massage and using sex toys can be life saving for men. Masturbation can lower your prostate cancer risk, improve heart health, boost immunity and if you orgasm once or twice a week help you live longer. Being sexual has a protective affect for men’s health.

If you have sexual problems ie erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, lack of libido and post surgical problems research has found that using a male vibrating can restore orgasm with penile vibratory stimulation.

There are new brands and high tech vibrators out there for men. So sex toys are not just for women, men you can please yourself and look after your well being for pleasure.

Some brands out there are Lelo, Lovehoney, Arcwaver and Durex.

(I am not affiliated with any of these brands and you should speak to your doctor if you have any concerns about using sex toys).

Maria
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Sensual Massage

Are you feeling stressed, body muscles aches, well let me make you feel relaxed, unwind, stress free with a sensual massage or “eroctic” massage with my soft touch.

The history of sensual massage can be found over more than a thousand years and was widespread in China and India.
A sensual massage is designed to be sexually stimulating and is to promote relaxation and increase arousal, leading to increased sexual pleasure.

My soft hands will glide over your body and caress you with massage oil. At the end of the massage if you would like I can give you a “happy ending”.

A sensual or eroctic massage can boost your health and wellbeing. By having a massage regularly it can:

strengthen your immune system by raising your antibodies to ward against germs and viruses
lower the risk of heart attack
Sleeping improvement
eliminate headaches, back aches to name a few by raising your endorphins in your body which are a natural painkiller
lower the risk of prostate cancer
stronger, longer erections
increase sexual stamina

Of course having a massage is stress relief, but having a massage with eroctica the benefits go much further. Massage strokes alone breaks down muscle knots and eliminate the stress hormone cortisol giving you relief. The euphoria of a happy ending releases the feel good chemical Oxycontin, which maximises the pleasure and stimulates a positive mind-set for you. An erotic massage really is the best relief.

Some people enjoy massage beyond the numerous health benefits because it produces feelings of caring, comfort and connection without the sex.

You can always check with your Doctor if it is medically safe for you. If you have never tried this type of massage before, why not make a booking with me for a 30 minute sensual massage and let me make you feel relaxed.

Maria
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Day trip to Kiama, NSW

I recently took a trip to Kiama for the first time which is a coastal town which is just over 2 hours drive south of Sydney. You can, of course, drive the more scenic route stopping at the Sea Cliff Bridge, Stanwell Park, rainforest walks and the coastal drive.

It is known for the Kiama Blowhole and Little Blowhole. Heading north, the Kiama Coast Walk trail links the blowholes to the columns of Cathedral Rocks, with whale-watching spots along the way. The beaches have calm water for swimming.
It’s such a relaxing place to stay and great to get out of Sydney for a change of pace.

So if you would like a day trip I’m available for bookings to show you this beautiful scenery.

Maria
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Bye 2022 and Hello 2023

Happy New Year.

Here we are again, where has the year gone!

It has been a difficult year for some coming out of Covid into an unknown economy, but was also filled with wonderful clients and new adventures.I would like to thank all the clients I have seen over the year, great company, good conversations and the sensual pleasures.

Thank you to all of you. I look forward to seeing you in 2023.

Lets share some kindness, happiness in our lives and stay safe.

Maria
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Sexual Pleasures

Are you having pleasurable and great sex? Sex that works for you and is great and makes you feel satisfied, gives you pleasure and makes you feel confident in the bedroom.

Great sex is about having a sensual experience, something I provide in my sessions. A lot of people believe to have great sex is all about their performance to get it right. So when we are in the bedroom it is not always about the sexual performance but pleasure you give one another. No one has sex perfectly but is something we enjoy and is fun. Pleasure is about communicating with your sexual partners while having the sexual experience, being together, relaxing, trusting the person you are with, relating to each other and experiencing sex as something other than penetration and orgasm. Communicating is important so we learn what our partners like and don’t like so we can respect one another.

Some men feel inadequate because they cannot perform and there are many reasons for this, anxiety, stress, nervousness seeing a companion, but we can enjoy the sensual touch of one another and feel and learn the curves of each other’s bodies. A relaxing massage is always a good way to relieve the tension. This will help to have great sex. If you are at the age your both cannot perform any longer you still can have fun with intimacy with kisses, cuddles and just feeling each other’s bodies.

Of course, having sex and an orgasm will relieve the stress and release endorphins (the feel-good chemicals) which will help and reduce anxiety, better sleep and boost our blood circulation for a healthier wellbeing.

I don’t judge anyone on their performance. I just want us both to have a sensual experience which brings both pleasure, an enjoyable time and fun along the way.

I am available for sessions for a pleasurable and sensual session.

Maria
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Why a lunch or dinner date

Are you visiting Sydney or missing a companion to share a lunch or dinner, look no further. It would be my pleasure to accompany you and keep you company. A lunch or dinner date is the perfect way to start a booking. If you are feeling nervous, this is a great way you can start to unwind and feel relaxed.

As we sit across the table on a dinner date you will look into my mesmerising green eyes as we make a connection. Its a perfect way to get to know each other enjoying the evening in each other’s company, good conversation and a nice meal which will lead to what is next to come.

It’s nice to dress up on occasions for dinner but I also love to be relaxed and casual for a date. I love seafood restaurants.
We can go to a restaurant of your choosing, maybe one at the hotel or I can arrange a deluxe dinner package.

Alternatively, we could have a casual meal at my incall. I love something simple on these dates, prawns, fresh bread and avocado and for dessert some strawberries.
It sets the stage for the rest of the time afterwards when we head to the bedroom. What happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors.

Maria
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Etiquette in contacting a companion

Over the years I have seen how there has been little or no etiquette in manners of clients contacting a sex worker.

When making a booking, it can be overwhelming for the first time, but overall please be polite and respectable and I will be the same to you.
Please read the ad or website first before contacting me especially to see if I am the right person for you to see. Do some research, if I’m not the person for you there will be someone else.

When contacting me for the first time follow how to contact me. Don’t “Hi Babe, are u available” and “are you interested”. Manners is important to me. Provide the information requested to make a booking and let the provider know a little about yourself . The information asked by you is for our safety.
Inquire what you would like in a booking and whether the provider, provides what you are looking for.
Please don’t haggle with rates as this is one way not to be accepted for a booking and if a deposit is requested this is non-negotiable.
When you come to a booking please make sure your clean hygiene and no the boundaries if a “no” is said it means “no”.
I am here to make you feel at ease and relaxed and take away the pressures of your busy life and we can have an enjoyable time.

I do prefer a lunch or dinner date as we can get to know one another before we close the bedroom door for some intimacy. I am known for my sensual touch as I run my hands over your body.

Merry Christmas and Happy New Year 2021

Where did the year go. It seems to have flown by and not much has happened except mainly for being in lockdown due to Covid-19. A similar story for everyone as last year. The days of missing a hug are hopefully behind us. We all need to feel a connection with other people. It releases the feel-good hormone oxytocin that flows when we bond with others. I know I missed my hugs. We will have to learn to live with this virus for some time or years to come and it will be the new “norm”.

I certainly do miss travelling seeking adventures. I must admit I did have a couple of small trips of adventure to Melbourne and the Northern Territory.

I would like to say a big thank you to all my clients, regular and new clients who I have had the privilege to meet and share some fun with over the year whether it was by phone chats, messages or being able to see you in a session.

I hope you all had a very happy Christmas and New Year with your loved ones and family. Stay safe over the holiday period.

I wish 2022 will be full of happiness, kindness, harmony and health.

I look forward to seeing you in 2022.

Maria
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Life in Covid Lockdown Sydney 2021

Here we are again in Covid Lockdown in Sydney. This is my third lockdown. As you are aware it is a difficult time for everyone being far more strict in our movements.

I have been keeping busy by planting flowers which have now began to bloom, cooking, reading and binge watching the Crown.

I also go for my daily walks along the coastal tracks. You are totally alone and in isolation as you take in the beauty of the coastline. If you live near the beach it helps clear the mind.

Reduces stresses by making you feel at ease;
Boosts your creativity by clearing your head to allow you to clearly focus;
Help in reduce feelings of depression; and
Change your perspective on life.

I wrote a blog on this. See link Health Benefits of Going to the Beach

If you cannot be near the seaside, getting out each day for physical exercise in the park is also just as good for your wellbeing.

I also reminisce the day I will be able to travel again to places like Africa, tropical islands ie Bora Bora. Most importantly the smaller things in life just to be able to see family and friends.

I would like to thank my lovely clients who have been in contact with me to check on my wellbeing and given me support. I look forward to the day I will be able to see you and share a dinner or lunch date with you. If you would like to see more of me in new lingerie would be happy to receive a Westfield Gift Voucher.

None of us like being in lockdown but please do the right thing and stay at home so we can come out sooner than later. All I can say is be safe and keep social distancing, plus wear a mask. Most importantly please get vaccinated so we can start to live a normal life again. I am fully vaccinated now.

Maria
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