Category: Education

Sex Toys for Men

Sexual health wellbeing for men is being more recognised in society. With social media, wellness influencers and a more people being open about their masculinity and sexuality have contributed to discussions about male sexual health and pleasure.  So sex toys are not just out there for women but there are a range and variety of sex toys designed explicitly for men.

I have read some surveys and articles and they say that men masturbate an average of 155 times per year which is almost three times per week.

So according to science, masturbation, prostate massage and using sex toys can be life saving for men. Masturbation can lower your prostate cancer risk, improve heart health, boost immunity and if you orgasm once or twice a week help you live longer. Being sexual has a protective affect for men’s health.

If you have sexual problems ie erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, lack of libido and post surgical problems research has found that using a male vibrating can restore orgasm with penile vibratory stimulation.

There are new brands and high tech vibrators out there for men. So sex toys are not just for women, men you can please yourself and look after your well being for pleasure.

Some brands out there are Lelo, Lovehoney, Arcwaver and  Durex. 

(I am not affiliated with any of these brands and you should speak to your doctor if you have any concerns about using sex toys).

Maria
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Does Man-Opause Exist

Do men suffer from ‘Man-Opause’ just like women? Why yes. In men it is called “Andropause”

If you are experiencing low moods, reduced sexual drive, poor concentration and motivation, aching bones, fatigue. Erectile dysfunction to name a few, these are similar symptoms that women go through for female menopause. So men of a certain age can experience similar symptoms in their mid-life.

We all have testosterone, which gives us that libido and energy.  So men your testosterone levels will decline when you reach your mid-40s. This is not to say that all men with go through this. It all depends as well on your health, how fit you are.  If you are obese your testosterone levels will drop by 30 per cent or more. Another illness could be diabetes.

The best form of treatment is to have a healthy lifestyle, regular exercise, eat healthy, get enough sleep and reduce your stress.

It’s normal to experience a decline in your testosterone levels as you get older. For many men symptoms are manageable.  If symptoms are worrying you, I suggest you speak to your doctor who can help to manage or treat your symptoms. It’s all part of the life cycle of growing older.

If you need to release some stress, why not visit me for a relaxing massage, or social date where we can go for a walk.
Maria
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Sensual Massage

Are you feeling stressed, body muscles aches, well let me make you feel relaxed, unwind, stress free with a sensual massage or “eroctic” massage with my soft touch.

The history of sensual massage can be found over more than a thousand years and was widespread in China and India.
A sensual massage is designed to be sexually stimulating and is to promote relaxation and increase arousal, leading to increased sexual pleasure.

My soft hands will glide over your body and caress you with massage oil. At the end of the massage if you would like I can give you a “happy ending”.

A sensual or eroctic massage can boost your health and wellbeing.  By having a massage regularly it can:

  • strengthen your immune system by raising your antibodies to ward against germs and viruses
  • lower the risk of heart attack
  • Sleeping improvement
  • eliminate headaches, back aches to name a few by raising your endorphins in your body which are a natural painkiller
  • lower the risk of prostate cancer
  • stronger, longer erections
  • increase sexual stamina

Of course having a massage is stress relief, but having a massage with eroctica the benefits go much further. Massage strokes alone breaks down muscle knots and eliminate the stress hormone cortisol giving you relief. The euphoria of a happy ending releases the feel good chemical Oxycontin, which maximises the pleasure and stimulates a positive mind-set for you. An erotic massage really is the best relief.

Some people enjoy massage beyond the numerous health benefits because it produces feelings of caring, comfort and connection without the sex.

You can always check with your Doctor if it is  medically safe for you. If you have never tried this type of  massage before, why not make a booking with me for a 30 minute sensual massage and let me make you feel relaxed.

Maria
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Benefits of a Hug

The benefits of a hug are more than just a friendly greeting, people hug to express their feelings from affection and joy and sadness.
We can also call hugs the “love hormone” oxytocin but it also heals sickness, loneliness, depression, anxiety and stress.

The feeling of touch and a deep hug has these benefits:

  • A nurturing touch of a hug builds trust and a sense of safety;
  • Boost oxytocin levels to heal feelings of loneliness, isolation and anger.
  • Having a long hug increases oxytocin levels which gives you a feeling of happiness.  It also can lead to intimacy between one another;
  • A hug can strengthen the immune system  keeping us healthy. Plus it relaxes our muscles and can soothe our aches and pains.

So if you feel the need for a hug, I would be happy to hug you back as I do like a hug myself. Hugs are all part of my dates.

Maria
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Sexual Pleasures

Are you having pleasurable and great sex? Sex that works for you and is great and makes you feel satisfied, gives you pleasure and makes you feel confident in the bedroom.

Great sex is about having a sensual experience, something I provide in my sessions. A lot of people believe to have great sex is all about their performance to get it right. So when we are in the bedroom it is not always about the sexual performance but pleasure you give one another. No one has sex perfectly but is something we enjoy and is fun. Pleasure is about communicating with your sexual partners while having the sexual experience, being together, relaxing, trusting the person you are with, relating to each other and experiencing sex as something other than penetration and orgasm.  Communicating is important so we learn what our partners like and don’t like so we can respect one another.

Some men feel inadequate because they cannot perform and there are many reasons for this, anxiety, stress, nervousness seeing a companion, but we can enjoy the sensual touch of one another and feel and learn the curves of each other’s bodies. A relaxing massage is always a good way to relieve the tension. This will help to have great sex. If you are at the age your both cannot perform any longer you still can have fun with intimacy with kisses, cuddles and just feeling each other’s bodies.

Of course, having sex and an orgasm will relieve the stress and release endorphins (the feel-good chemicals) which will help and reduce anxiety, better sleep  and boost our blood circulation for a healthier wellbeing.

I don’t judge anyone on their performance. I just want us both to have a sensual experience which brings both pleasure, an enjoyable time and fun along the way.

I am available for sessions for a pleasurable and sensual session. 

Maria
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Etiquette in contacting a companion

Over the years I have seen how there has been little or no etiquette in manners of clients contacting a sex worker.

When making a booking, it can be overwhelming for the first time, but overall please be polite and respectable and I will be the same to you.
Please read the ad or website first before contacting me especially to see if I am the right person for you to see. Do some research, if I’m not the person for you there will be someone else.

When contacting me for the first time follow how to contact me. Don’t “Hi Babe, are u available” and “are you interested”. Manners is important to me. Provide the information requested to make a booking and let the provider know a little about yourself . The information asked by you is for our safety.
Inquire what you would like in a booking and whether the provider, provides what you are looking for.
Please don’t haggle with rates as this is one way not to be accepted for a booking and if a deposit is requested this is non-negotiable.
When you come to a booking please make sure your clean hygiene and no the boundaries if a “no” is said it means “no”.
I am here to make you feel at ease and relaxed and take away the pressures of your busy life and we can have an enjoyable time.

I do prefer a lunch or dinner date as we can get to know one another before we close the bedroom door for some intimacy. I am known for my sensual touch as I run my hands over your body.

Food to Arouse your Sexual Desire

Our sexual desire can be increased by eating food that are “aphrodisiac” which is defined as a “drug or food that arouses sexual desire”.  It stimulates one or more of our five senses: sight, smell, sound, taste and touch accompanied by some wine, chocolate, candlelight and music. 

So aphrodisiacs can boost our sexual drive.  It can help to increase our libidos in certain ways by increasing blood flow to sex organs, while others increase the body to produce higher levels of hormones associated with sex drive. Weather this is all true or not, it is important to eat healthy and exercise to maintain your sex drive.

Some of the foods are: chocolate, strawberries, watermelon, red wine, oysters, almonds.

So why not try some strawberries and wine in my company and let the feel-good hormone dopamine give boost to your libido.

If you would like to arouse your sexual desire, lets arrange a date. See my Services and Contact for bookings.

Maria
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Erotic Sexual Pottery from Lima, Peru

My friends recently came back from a trip to Lima, Peru where they visited the Larco Museum which houses ancient artifacts. But in a gallery segregated from the main gallery are 1500 year old year old erotic sexual pottery, pre-Columbian Moche pottery which depicts the Adean people’s explicit sexuality.

Spooning Erotic Pottery

They say it presents the physical act of sex as an affront to the Catholic faith. But the art also suited the Spanish need to define indigenous people as “carnal”, “lustful” and pagan” tribes which would declare war so that the Spanish could expand their territory. The pottery is not of traditional sex but men and women having anal sex, women performing oral sex on men and men masturbating.

Oral Erotic Sexual Pottery

Anal intercourse was accepted and practiced as a form of birth control.

Here are some pictures. Enjoy

  • Mutual Masturbation
  • Penis teapot
Anal

Maria
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