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Why a lunch or dinner date

Are you visiting Sydney or missing a companion to share a lunch or dinner, look no further. It would be my pleasure to accompany you and keep you company.  A lunch or dinner date is the perfect way to start a booking.  If you are feeling nervous, this is a great way you can start to unwind and feel relaxed.

As we sit across the table on a  dinner date you will look into my mesmerising green eyes as we make a connection. Its a perfect way to get to know each other enjoying the evening in each other’s company, good conversation and a nice meal which will lead to what is next to come. 

It’s nice to dress up on occasions for dinner but I also love to be relaxed and casual for a date. I love seafood restaurants.
We can go to a restaurant of your choosing, maybe one at the hotel or I can arrange a deluxe dinner package.

Alternatively, we could have a casual meal at my incall.  I love something simple on these dates, prawns, fresh bread and avocado and for dessert some strawberries. 
It sets the stage for the rest of the time afterwards when we head to the bedroom.  What happens behind closed doors stays behind closed doors.

Maria
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What to expect on a longer date

Ever wondered what a longer date might entail? It’s all about privacy and location where you feel the most comfortable.

If you like your privacy and prefer not to have a date in a hotel, I have an incall on the Northern Beaches.  Or alternatively, I can arrange for an incall depending on your location for longer dates.

I would greet you at the door with my friendly smile and a hug.  We would begin the date by relaxing on the couch with some good conversation as we get to know each other. Human connection is important which is what we all desire. I would take away those nerves with my sensual touch and perhaps sip on a glass of wine or coffee with cheese and biscuits.

As things progress, we can move into the bedroom if this is this is what you desire and enjoy the intimacy of each other. Perhaps begin with a relaxing massage before things progress in an unrushed experience of passion. 
I look forward to meeting you and we can take things at whatever pace you prefer.

Sensual relaxing massage

Gentleman if you are looking to unwind and relax let me provide you with an erotic massage.

I provide a combination of my soft sensual touch, teasing and tantalising every inch of your body.  At the end of the massage your pleasuer will reach that happy ending.

I will be dressed in sexy lingerie unless you would like me nude.

The massage is for 30 minutes only at $150 and nude $200.

(No sex or intimate sexual touching is provided – this is not full service)

Text only for appointment Maria – 0480 275 757

Sex Toys for Men

Sexual health wellbeing for men is being more recognised in society. With social media, wellness influencers and a more people being open about their masculinity and sexuality have contributed to discussions about male sexual health and pleasure.  So sex toys are not just out there for women but there are a range and variety of sex toys designed explicitly for men.

I have read some surveys and articles and they say that men masturbate an average of 155 times per year which is almost three times per week.

So according to science, masturbation, prostate massage and using sex toys can be life saving for men. Masturbation can lower your prostate cancer risk, improve heart health, boost immunity and if you orgasm once or twice a week help you live longer. Being sexual has a protective affect for men’s health.

If you have sexual problems ie erectile dysfunction, premature ejaculation, lack of libido and post surgical problems research has found that using a male vibrating can restore orgasm with penile vibratory stimulation.

There are new brands and high tech vibrators out there for men. So sex toys are not just for women, men you can please yourself and look after your well being for pleasure.

Some brands out there are Lelo, Lovehoney, Arcwaver and  Durex. 

(I am not affiliated with any of these brands and you should speak to your doctor if you have any concerns about using sex toys).

Maria
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Does Man-Opause Exist

Do men suffer from ‘Man-Opause’ just like women? Why yes. In men it is called “Andropause”

If you are experiencing low moods, reduced sexual drive, poor concentration and motivation, aching bones, fatigue. Erectile dysfunction to name a few, these are similar symptoms that women go through for female menopause. So men of a certain age can experience similar symptoms in their mid-life.

We all have testosterone, which gives us that libido and energy.  So men your testosterone levels will decline when you reach your mid-40s. This is not to say that all men with go through this. It all depends as well on your health, how fit you are.  If you are obese your testosterone levels will drop by 30 per cent or more. Another illness could be diabetes.

The best form of treatment is to have a healthy lifestyle, regular exercise, eat healthy, get enough sleep and reduce your stress.

It’s normal to experience a decline in your testosterone levels as you get older. For many men symptoms are manageable.  If symptoms are worrying you, I suggest you speak to your doctor who can help to manage or treat your symptoms. It’s all part of the life cycle of growing older.

If you need to release some stress, why not visit me for a relaxing massage, or social date where we can go for a walk.
Maria
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Social Date or Hug Session

Are you missing some social connection, you don’t have to have sex to have an enjoyable time.  If you are a gentleman looking for a friendly companion to share a good laugh, conversation, some fun and a relaxing time I provide social dates.  There is no expectations on either of us just to have a good time.

If you are visiting Sydney and would like a tour guide around this wonderful city or like some company on a lunch or dinner date, look no further, as I would love to connect with you on a social date.

Likewise, for any gentleman who need some company to an event or are lonely and would love to chat with me over a coffee, a walk on the beach or perhaps a movie.

Some of my favourite places to visit are the Blue Mountains and lunch at my favourite cafe at Wentworth Falls. Alternatively, a trip down to the Southern Highlands around Bowral or Berrima.
A drive along the Northern Beaches where we could have a picnic and walk along one of the many beautiful beaches.
If you are short for time, the city of Sydney on the harbour foreshore has so much to offer, sights, cafes and restaurants.
These are just some ideas for a social date.

On another note, if you would like to be held and have a chat, I offer hugs and cuddle sessions (fully clothed non-sexual) to help relieve the tension and feel the touch of a person. We all crave the feel of touch of another person.

See my Services and Rates and Deposit for details.

Maria
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Sensual Massage

Are you feeling stressed, body muscles aches, well let me make you feel relaxed, unwind, stress free with a sensual massage or “eroctic” massage with my soft touch.

The history of sensual massage can be found over more than a thousand years and was widespread in China and India.
A sensual massage is designed to be sexually stimulating and is to promote relaxation and increase arousal, leading to increased sexual pleasure.

My soft hands will glide over your body and caress you with massage oil. At the end of the massage if you would like I can give you a “happy ending”.

A sensual or eroctic massage can boost your health and wellbeing.  By having a massage regularly it can:

  • strengthen your immune system by raising your antibodies to ward against germs and viruses
  • lower the risk of heart attack
  • Sleeping improvement
  • eliminate headaches, back aches to name a few by raising your endorphins in your body which are a natural painkiller
  • lower the risk of prostate cancer
  • stronger, longer erections
  • increase sexual stamina

Of course having a massage is stress relief, but having a massage with eroctica the benefits go much further. Massage strokes alone breaks down muscle knots and eliminate the stress hormone cortisol giving you relief. The euphoria of a happy ending releases the feel good chemical Oxycontin, which maximises the pleasure and stimulates a positive mind-set for you. An erotic massage really is the best relief.

Some people enjoy massage beyond the numerous health benefits because it produces feelings of caring, comfort and connection without the sex.

You can always check with your Doctor if it is  medically safe for you. If you have never tried this type of  massage before, why not make a booking with me for a 30 minute sensual massage and let me make you feel relaxed.

Maria
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Day trip to Kiama, NSW

I recently took a trip to Kiama for the first time which is a coastal town which is just over 2 hours drive south of Sydney. You can, of course, drive the more scenic route stopping at the Sea Cliff Bridge, Stanwell Park, rainforest walks and the coastal drive.

It is known for the Kiama Blowhole and Little Blowhole.  Heading north, the Kiama Coast Walk trail links the blowholes to the columns of Cathedral Rocks, with whale-watching spots along the way. The beaches have calm water for swimming.
It’s such a relaxing place to stay and great to get out of Sydney for a change of pace.
 

Cathedral Rock

So if you would like a day trip I’m available for bookings to show you this beautiful scenery.

Maria
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Benefits of a Hug

The benefits of a hug are more than just a friendly greeting, people hug to express their feelings from affection and joy and sadness.
We can also call hugs the “love hormone” oxytocin but it also heals sickness, loneliness, depression, anxiety and stress.

The feeling of touch and a deep hug has these benefits:

  • A nurturing touch of a hug builds trust and a sense of safety;
  • Boost oxytocin levels to heal feelings of loneliness, isolation and anger.
  • Having a long hug increases oxytocin levels which gives you a feeling of happiness.  It also can lead to intimacy between one another;
  • A hug can strengthen the immune system  keeping us healthy. Plus it relaxes our muscles and can soothe our aches and pains.

So if you feel the need for a hug, I would be happy to hug you back as I do like a hug myself. Hugs are all part of my dates.

Maria
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Bye 2022 and Hello 2023

Happy New Year.

Here we are again, where has the year gone!

It has been a difficult year for some coming out of Covid into an unknown economy, but was also filled with wonderful clients and new adventures.I would like to thank all the clients I have seen over the year, great company, good conversations and the sensual pleasures.

Thank you to all of you. I look forward to seeing you in 2023.

Lets share some kindness, happiness in our lives and stay safe.


Maria
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Sexual Pleasures

Are you having pleasurable and great sex? Sex that works for you and is great and makes you feel satisfied, gives you pleasure and makes you feel confident in the bedroom.

Great sex is about having a sensual experience, something I provide in my sessions. A lot of people believe to have great sex is all about their performance to get it right. So when we are in the bedroom it is not always about the sexual performance but pleasure you give one another. No one has sex perfectly but is something we enjoy and is fun. Pleasure is about communicating with your sexual partners while having the sexual experience, being together, relaxing, trusting the person you are with, relating to each other and experiencing sex as something other than penetration and orgasm.  Communicating is important so we learn what our partners like and don’t like so we can respect one another.

Some men feel inadequate because they cannot perform and there are many reasons for this, anxiety, stress, nervousness seeing a companion, but we can enjoy the sensual touch of one another and feel and learn the curves of each other’s bodies. A relaxing massage is always a good way to relieve the tension. This will help to have great sex. If you are at the age your both cannot perform any longer you still can have fun with intimacy with kisses, cuddles and just feeling each other’s bodies.

Of course, having sex and an orgasm will relieve the stress and release endorphins (the feel-good chemicals) which will help and reduce anxiety, better sleep  and boost our blood circulation for a healthier wellbeing.

I don’t judge anyone on their performance. I just want us both to have a sensual experience which brings both pleasure, an enjoyable time and fun along the way.

I am available for sessions for a pleasurable and sensual session. 

Maria
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